3. You don’t remember the last time you had sex
Let’s get real for a second. When was the last time his or her touch actually left you with a tingling sensation in your gut and nether regions? It’s not uncommon for married people to lose the spark after years of marriage, but for it to completely disappear could potentially be one of the first warning signs of greater problems down the road. If you or your spouse is actively avoiding intimacy for seemingly ludicrous reasons, then you need to start communicating more with each other, no matter how awkward things get.